Did you know you’re being watched?

I don’t mean to foster paranoia, but it has been said (at least in public) that someone always sees EVERYTHING you do.  Whether or not it registers, they do anything with the information, or if they’ll even remember it remains to be seen.  I like to think that there exists the potential for greatness in everyone and I may be in the presence of the next famous (you fill in the blank.)  It staggers the imagination!

But it goes both ways.  Anyone who stands before the multitude – in a classroom, as a politician, in entertainment, etc. has an impact.  Aside from a few comedians and several country music singers, I don’t hear a lot of appreciation expressed.

I think part of living one’s faith, ideals, ethics or all-of-the-above means realizing the impact you have on all who perceive you.  I especially (at the risk of sounding cocky) like to reflect on my impact on children.  They are the future and how inspired or jaded they become has a lot to do with who they interact with. 

It’s really quite a responsibility and can even be heavy at times – especially if they all remember you but you’re terrible with names (like me – the flakiness in my family is legendary!)

So whether your destiny is great fame or “simply” to teach, be aware of those that follow you.  Whether their feedback is verbal or non-verbal, you are a key part in raising up or dashing the future.

Say “thank you” anytime you feel it – and expand on your feelings when you can.

Smile! Be at least happy to see whomever is THRILLED to see you!

Your personal life has NOTHING to do with their esteem.  Keep it out of your interaction.  For example, kids don’t care about your finances, marital situation, or even being late for work.  Check your problems at the door.

And embrace opportunities to go the extra mile and not just the bare minimum.  Givers gain!

Enjoy!

Tags: Art, impact, Life, perception, role model

This one’s for the art teachers:

Despite the passion and endurance an art teacher may have, it’s hard to tell if you’re making an impact.  I don’t know a quality teacher who doesn’t need praise, recognition or some form of validation to keep from being depressed.  Especially with the “economy” and all the cuts, special area teachers are in a constant state of paranoia and (sadly) need to keep justifying their existence to the “powers that be”

I encourage you to look for non-verbal praise from your students.  Most visual artists are shy and simply don’t have the words or the courage to try and tell you how they feel.  It all goes into their artwork.

 I was no exception as a child.  I’m sure the role models that influenced me the most had no clue.  In fact, it wasn’t until adulthood that I was able to convey that sentiment to someone from my own family.

So look for smiles.  Listen for enthusiasm.  Be prepared for hugs.  Just their lingering in your presence is a wonderful clue.

And take heart knowing that not just one, but MANY have or are being influenced by you.

Tags: Art, impact, role model, Teaching